Each year, there are more than 3.7 million youth who engage in some form of bullying, and another 3.2 million who are victims of being bullied. Bullying isn’t just normal physical abuse. Bullying can also be in the form of verbal abuse or social abuse. Name calling, intimidation, and destroying relationships are all alternate forms of bullying. I believe bullying should be addressed not necessarily because of the fearful climate and stress it may cause, but rather the potential retaliation that can stem from being bullied.
Many students who are bullied struggle because a lot these situations are difficult to communicate. Studies and surveys have shown that two thirds of school shootings have occurred after a student made claims of being bullied, threatened, attacked, or injured by others. Students who are bullied are also known to suffer from loneliness, depression, and low self-esteem. Regardless of the age group, it is hard for youth and adolescents to tell someone older that they are being picked on. This is largely due the misconception that someone who is bullied is weak. In some instances, bullied students become overwhelmed with fear, anxiety, anger, and even rage which can lead to school shootings.
Many times, bullies seek out attention from their peers in order to gain a sense of belonging or social status. In order to deflect this, students should try and develop tight-knit support systems. The sole objective of a bully is to break his or her victim down but, if one surrounds themselves with positive individuals, this will eliminate any chance of self doubt. Having a strong support system makes it easier to discuss whatever issues you are going through. This good communication makes it easier to receive help in order to avoid being further abused.
- Mr. Rashad
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Jeffrey Jones
October 4, 2012 at 1:58 pm (UTC 0)
We need to also make sure that ever young person feels safe at their school or neighborhood. Parents and concerned adults have to have a watchful eye and deter any behavior that they feel is not appropriate. Often it is when parents or adults pay these behaviors little attention that the behavior ends up turning into bullying.
Also anyone who is being bullied needs to know that they do have safe places and people who they can turn to. Philly Girl Talk/Philly GuyTalk (PGT) offers them just that. If you’re a young person who feels that they are being bullied PGT has concerned and caring mentors that are willing to help you. Don’t wait another day trying to deal with it by yourself hoping it will stop. PGT is here to help you now.
JP
October 4, 2012 at 9:08 pm (UTC 0)
Bullying is a major talking point right now, and big issue surrounding our youth, especially in schools. Most of the issue stems from a sense of insecurity and confidence.
Since this post specifically addresses the issue of retaliation, it is my belief that as mentors, it is part of our job to help or direct a feeling of comfort and build confidence with and for our youth. The concept of “bullying” varies and can be viewed differently for each individual in each stage of life.
For example, you’ll graduate from school and get a job, and there will be obstacles along the way to try to stunt your progression and personal development. Can these be viewed as metaphorical bullies? Can a bad supervisor be labeled a bully? Can an…